My Mind

Thursday, December 6, 2012

Finally...

After the dispute between Aircel and Airtel, today I am able to send and receive messages from Airtel. I do not know the actual issue though. The news says Aircel did not sign an agreement that was made and had a due to be paid. Sorry! being an aircel customer doesn't always demand about the whole knowledge of my network.
All I can say is (obviously I am being a proper 'Indian'* here)

I don't get to contact someone when I am in need of.
I can access unlimited internet with just 99 INR. (Well I am not sure. I have never used it. But heard so.)
Can stand odd man out in a crowd as all your friends and relatives will see your network as an alienated one

Now I just see the above points as colloquial way of expressing views. (No section 66A. Please! )

Coming to what I learnt in this one month when I was unable to text anyone.

You forget why you use mobile.
You go back to the times when you dint know what a mobile was.
If you are a person who never has a balance less more than 3 INR, Okay! Now that is me.You cannot be in touch with people.

Technically this teaches to crisis management. Spiritually I learnt detachment.

Well, things are getting back to normal now.

*Indians are known for fault finding ;)

Tuesday, September 11, 2012

Chella Pillai

This is my first photo post and it is worth it.

Now the baby boy in this photo is very special not only to me but to my whole maternal relatives. He was born after 13 years of marriage. And as any baby, he is god incarnate.

Introducing to the world my 8 months cousin 'Sai Paritchith' named after Paritchith maharaja who conquered things after a great struggle. Wish he too succeeds in everything he does.

There is a story behind every picture!

Sai Paritchith, Bangalore

Guess I missed out who he is , he is my baby cousin. Born to my last aunt (chithi in tamil) Now, on why he is special to me:

1. He is so sweet that he understands his mom's pain and doesn't ask her to sleep.

2. I am a person who will not like to go to his place as it takes time to travel but once when I see him, he gets so much attached to me that I start to miss him when I leave the place.

3. Actually, this is supposed to be the first and foremost reason behind me LOVING him so much. He resembles exactly likee my sibling (my brother). MINE. I can exactly relate him to his childhood days. I have heard a lot from my mom how he cuddles me in the tender age. Now I have got a feeling that I get to cuddle him back.

PS1: Me and my brother fight a lot till now.

PS2: Photo taken in my Sony walkman android mobile. Application:Retro camera

More about my brother in my upcoming post...

(Adha) ishq wala love...

I have started loving this once I heard in the promo and now it has become one of the top songs in my playlist. Well, I kind of felt there is another song which resembles like this one.

Movie: Student of the Year
Music Director: Vishal Shekar
Song : Ishq wala Love
Singers : Shekhar Ravjiani, Salim Merchant, Neeti Mohan

I feel Ishq wala love is a slower tempo of Adha ishq. I like both!

Movie: Band Baaja Bhaarat
Music Director : Salim Suliaman
Singer : Shreya Ghoshal

'Adha ishq ho ya poore ishq ho, Ho gaya na ishq? Gaane wala love'

Sunday, September 2, 2012

Early 20's? Tips to avoid marriage talks!

               Now that you found this post, I take you as one among the people who want to live YOUR life.

      Here are few tips for you to avoid the 'TALK'.

1. Avoid attending functions
This can sometimes be the bait to trap you.

2. Say no to exhibiting your 'talents' at public places you go
      When you sing at traditional functions, though you know you are a bathroom singer, they say 'ponnu nanna paadra' and enquire about you through someone.

3. Be with your age group
      It so happens that you tend to mingle with aunts and uncle and they find you samathu or a homely girl. So stay away from danger zone of 30+.

4. Act as deaf and dumb when the the topic starts.
     Just act as if you heard nothin when they say 'aduthu needhaan'. Because if you say 'Yes' , then they start the job of match fixing. If the answer is 'No' then they say "ada, kozhandha apdi dha solva namma dhan paathu pannanum". Either way is having saniyan in baniyan (Famous tamil dialogue- Saniyan is saturn which is often considered as danger and Baniyan is inner garment worn to absorb sweat).

5. Do not react
     Be like the mixture mama from the tamil movie Naattamai. This makes people feel you care a hood to what they say.

For now these are the common mistakes that we do . I was concentrating on Tam bram girls alone. Leave in your comments so that I get to add more.

To be continued...

Sunday, October 2, 2011

The truth

It happens when we want to get over something, we really cant. This applies to everyone. In any relationship there is a twist. The one who was never close to us becomes our best bud as time passes, and the one who was our closest simply rift apart. The former brings happiness thinking about but the latter simply hurts. In the second case, we cant really blame the other person. The whole mistake will be on us who would have moved on getting new ones. But there are certain relationship where we don't talk to them but still remain the closest. This is when we realize the value of trust, love , affection, belongingness and everything.

We always have at least one person in our life who can understand us what we are going through (happy or sad).Though we don't meet quite often.And to whom we can tell all the crap though they are not interested in listening. Cause deep inside we know that they do all those silly gesture of disinterest just to make us feel that they are there for us, things are going to be okay.Though we don't listen to them in the very first go, we do tend to feel that they were right with what they said, cause they know us.

Relationship grows with time, grows as we grow.

P.S This post was drafted on 10/2/11 at 2:27 AM. I am wondering how I missed to post it!

Tuesday, September 13, 2011

Silent love

All of us would have surely had crush on someone or the other. May be certain beings with tuned mindset might not know the very feel of it. It puts a smile on our face thinking about the person. Each day has new hope of seeing the person. They can be anyone, be it a friend,classmate,colleague, including a stranger. The feeling is really sweet. The feel when we see them and the happiness wen they see us have no bounds. We feel really great as though we have achieved something great in our life (totally silly!! :P). And when our friends tease us in their presence we just feel so nice but don't want him/her to know about this. We would want to know more about them, want to be their friends.when we get their number, we wonder if we should start the conversation. Have so many thoughts in mind. But end up messaging them. We start jumping when we get a reply. But our heart breaks when we come to know that they are committed. Still we want to help them, having so many thoughts in mind. And when you become friends with them, they start sharing a lot about their love which hurts you even more. You still help them like a saint.

Did you ever fall for someone you know you shouldn't? Tried hard to fight your feelings but you just couldn't? You fall deeper with each passing day, but hide in every possible way. She/he is only a friend and nothing else, that is the lie you keep telling yourself! You keep on saying she/he is just a bud, but deep inside you are falling in love! A simple glance turns into a stare, but you pretend you don't care. Its 'not right' for you two to be together, Is that why you hide it so no one can see. Perhaps your feelings you can never show!

This is dedicated to all my friends who have or ever had such a silent love!

Saturday, April 23, 2011

Fair! Is it?

They say everything is fair in love and war! Is that so? Then why do so many people die in a war? And why is it that there so much of a heart break when you don't get the reciprocation from the person whom you love? Are these quotes just a lame excuse to do all wrong things in name of love.

The truth is when things are fine it is love (supposed to be ) else it is war ;)