Fair! Is it?

They say everything is fair in love and war! Is that so? Then why do so many people die in a war? And why is it that there so much of a heart break when you don't get the reciprocation from the person whom you love? Are these quotes just a lame excuse to do all wrong things in name of love.

The truth is when things are fine it is love (supposed to be ) else it is war ;)