Early 20's? Tips to avoid marriage talks!

               Now that you found this post, I take you as one among the people who want to live YOUR life.

      Here are few tips for you to avoid the 'TALK'.


1. Avoid attending functions
      This can sometimes be the bait to trap you.

2. Say no to exhibiting your 'talents' at public places you go
      When you sing at traditional functions, though you know you are a bathroom singer, they say 'ponnu nanna paadra' and enquire about you through someone.

3. Be with your age group 
      It so happens that you tend to mingle with aunts and uncle and they find you samathu or a homely girl. So stay away from danger zone of 30+.

4. Act as deaf and dumb when the the topic starts.
     Just act as if you heard nothin when they say 'aduthu needhaan'. Because if you say 'Yes' , then they start the job of match fixing. If the answer is 'No' then they say "ada, kozhandha apdi dha solva namma dhan paathu pannanum". Either way is having saniyan in baniyan (Famous tamil dialogue- Saniyan is saturn which is often considered as danger and Baniyan is inner garment worn to absorb sweat).

5. Do not react 
     Be like the mixture mama from the tamil movie Naattamai. This makes people feel you care a hood to what they say.

 For now these are the common mistakes that we do . I was concentrating on Tam bram girls alone. Leave in your comments so that I get to add more.

To be continued...